EDITED: Disregard - found and fixed problem

Yea, well, it is installed, and I still don't have the options you mention...

I got up this morning to over a hundred of these damned trackbacks and I have no way to prevent them.

EDIT:
I go back to my plugins page, I was just about to uninstall Serendiptiy altogether... and POOF, now there is ...

Hmmmm, i look under Comments and these options are not available....